Deep Insights of Life

Hello folks!!!!!

 Sometimes I so much of wondering to know what is life? Why life is often unfair? Why don't we get what we wish for? I am sure, that you've come across such kind of questions oftenly. You can google it and you'll get hell lot of answers regarding this. 

Is it necessary to always find answers in internet? No, nah! Actually, we're so much bound by internet and forget about our real capabilities of mind. Your all queries or doubts or hardships regarding your life which had generated from inside you, are able to your veteran mind to give answers of all these questions.

Sit back and try to observe your mind, your sub-concious mind. Your mind is so much of powerful. But the problem is we are so busy with our daily unhealthy activities and events and we just forget to look ourselves, to care our own interests, happiness and yeah- "Choices". 

Let me focus our mind to the word- Choice. Being a human, we're immensely blessed with the power called Choice. You can ask now, what does choice have to do with being a human? An animal also has the ability to choose. Yes, you're right. When an animal choose, he/she choose for his/her surviving not for developing his/her intellectual mind. That's why they are still behind of human being. Here Choice means why we choose that particular thing and what would be the impact of it- i.e. wise choice.

If we choose wisely, we will live our life happily. Now we look back at our life once, and think and breakdown of our all actions that we took in past and now we are suffering or we are rejoicing. 

One thing is common in everyone's life & that is- circumstance. And you know what, we're responsible to create our own circumstances. Still, we blame our surroundings, blame our situations, blame our up bringings, blame our luck and so on.

The another word- luck. I was so confused with that word. We oftenly slur our luck if we don't get what we had choiced. "Meri to kismat hi kharab thi..". It is easy to blame luck while it is hard to answerability to our choices. In my childhood to recent life, I was went through this and make blame on my luck. But it is actually wrong. Luck is nothing but the results or consequences of our choices that we had taken and took actions accordingly. 

Other aspect of life is time. Time itself an illusion. But time has all records of our all good and bad behaves, choices, etc. "You can have it all, just not all at once"- Oprah Winfrey. It means we will get everything but not immediately. Here condition is, we'll get what we've sown for. Neither more good than this, nor more bad. And you know what, it is very complex and there is high end algorithms that is beyond our vision. Let me explain it in easy way to you.

In my known neighbour, two brothers, I would not take their names, they had dreamt to start a business. One of them started with a good and effective business planning, while another one with very ambitious planning. Time had been spending. Their business were taking pace. But one day, the younger brother, who had taken effective plan, was faced with some technical glitches of his factory. But he could not serious about it because he thought his plan was perfect and it would create not a big issue. Likewise, elder brother also was faced mishap. But he took immediately help of an expert to do away bottlenecks. He did it. Then that expert suggested him to change his planning and do accordingly. He did follow. Having been passed few months, elder brother ran his business without any kind of hustle while his younger brother faced very hardships. Consequently, the younger one did not get earn much from his idea while elder one has been still running business smoothly with handsome profits. 

That is time. You don't know about the result. Because result is not depend on your single choice rather series of good choices. That is why I called it high end algorithms. Elder brother had ambitious planning but he changed it in middle with the help of an expertise and he was focussed his actions rather than outcomes. This was his choice. Imagine, if he would not choose to do away bottlenecks then he also faced the same that his younger brother did. 

So, life is not what we think that what it would be, but what we do choice to see ourselves and how we take actions to fulfill our choices. Good series of choices bring you good results and vice versa. Now come to the above questions- what is life?- life is matter of choice and not matter of luck. Why life is often unfair?- because of our series of unhaelthy choices. & Why don't we get what we wish for?- because time is still there to show you what you've sown and you'll reap it for sure.

It is cleared that our life in between our choices and times. So we need to choose wisely, because time is not in our hand but to make ourselves happy and success is completely depend upon our wise choices that able to change our time...for surehhhj. Next time whenever you blame anything out of you, just ask a question- Did you choose wisely? Remeber, everything is in our hand. 

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